Hi guys, I just want your honest advice as I am new here
My
boyfriend recently broke up with me, I really love him (deeply) and he
claimed he loved me too. we dated before 4years ago and we got back
together in June 2015. Things has been going well between us, he
introduced me to all his family and extended and marriage plans were on
the way.He promised me marriage ( Don't get me wrong he did not propose)
but we talk marriage everyday, future plans, we have planned the
wedding and even started looking at venue. We were already planning on
getting our first house together, deposit etc.. and things are all in
place.
unfortunately he caught me checking his phone (He has been
flirting with other girls) and I set him up, even though he played right
into my hands he found out that set him up and he got really annoyed
and told his family about it and said he needs time to think about the
relationship because I invaded his privacy and set him up and for that
reason he is not safe with me.
few days later he came back saying
he owe me an apology that when we got back together last year it was
not genuine, he was bored, he was pressured to get married and he saw
that I was available at the time based on my predicament (I came out of
an hurtful marriage) so he felt like he should just be with me since we
have dated before.
I felt really hurt and used, even though it
was my fault for checking his phone I begged him to take me back but he
refused, I have been struggling to deal with the pain as I do not want
to lose him.
I have been cursing him everyday ( as long as he lives
unless he comes back to beg me, he will never experience true love from a
woman every again) because he failed in his words and I felt like he
used me for those reasons he gave.
please am I right in cursing
him or should I just leave him and let him be, I really love him and I
am hurting, because he failed to address the fact that he was flirting
and his family are so biased as well
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