Call it green light,red light or whatever you like, there are certain
qualities men find irresistible in women. It's therefore no surprise
that some ladies date a man for just one month and before you know it,
the man proposes, while others keep going from one man to the other and
they keep "dumping" you.
Most of our ladies already know these things
but choose to still ignore in the name of being hard to get or being
"civilized ". There are however some things that civilization cannot
change especially in Africa, at least not in this our generation yet.
Without much ado, here are some qualities that will surely make a man want to have you forever.
1. Respect :
Every man craves for respect, especially from women. It has nothing to
do with pride, its the way we are wired. If you find it hard as a lady
to respect a man then you might as well forget about settling with a man
and maybe try a fellow woman. Women thrive on love and attention, men
thrive on respect. Even the Bible says it. When you respect and honor a
man, there's nothing he cannot do for you. That is why women who seem
respectful always attract men. Enough said on this.
2. Confidence :
Now by confidence I don't mean arrogance, there's a lot of difference
between them. A confident woman knows what she wants and goes for it,
she knows how to make her man happy, she feels free to show off her man
and brag about him, she pursues her goal with vigour and there's this
air of happiness around her. That's the kind of woman a man cannot
resist. Not the talkative, insulting, busy body type.
3. Decency:
A large percentage of men desire decently dressed women. At least 90
percent and am talking about serious relationship unless a man wants to
have you for satisfaction. No man wants to marry a wife who dresses half
Unclad. Sexy is good but Unclad is unacceptable to most men. Ladies too
much makeup pisses most men off. Too much artificial hair, nails and
all makes you look fake and only good for banging.
4. Can she keep a home? :
There is nothing as nice as a man coming home and finding his house
well cleaned and arranged. It tells the man that this lady will surely
make a good wife. Most women feel that men are feeling too big to do
these things like cleaning, washing and cooking. It's not so. Men are
not wired to do these things just like women are not wired to do
strenuous work like wiring, carrying heavy loads etc.
5. Can she cook? :
Men love food. I can't stress that enough. That is why a man can start
developing feelings for the house maid who cooks good food for him and
takes care of his house. Show a man that you can feed him good food and
he will want to keep you forever.
6. Neatness and good dress sense : A neat, well dressed, nice smelling, well put together woman is very desirable. Enough said.
7. Smile :
Now this is where most Naija ladies fail woefully. I don't know if it's
against the law in this country for women smile. You see them carrying
long faces like they woke up on the wrong side of the bed. Ladies please
smile. It communicates confidence and friendliness and also shows you
have a good heart. Men can't resist a sexy smile from a woman.
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