The rules of oral sex: How to make sure she's enjoying it too

PERFORMING oral sex doesn't need to be a job for her, if you follow these simple "rules".

 THE RULES: Make sure she enjoys giving you oral sex as much as you enjoy receiving it

As with all sex acts, it's important that everyone involved is enjoying themselves.
And giving a blowjob doesn't have to be a "job" for her, if you makes sure she's enjoying it too.
“The more comfortable and pleasing you make it for her, the more enthusiastic she’ll be about doing it more often,” sex and marriage therapist Moushumi Ghose told Men's Health.
To make it a most pleasurable experience all round simply follow these rules of oral etiquette.

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1. DO: Make her comfortable
If a woman is comfortable she will probably enjoy the act more, so be considerate of her comfort.
“If she’s on her knees, give her a pillow to kneel on, or move to the bed,” added Moushumi. “Hold her hair back if it’s getting in her mouth. Switch up positions so she doesn’t get a kink in her neck.”

2. DON'T: Push her head down
This is rule number one. If a woman is pleasuring you don't disrespect her by ramming her head down. This can strain her neck and make it difficult for her to breathe.
And lets face it she's much less likely to do it again.

KINKY: Make sure you compliment her and whatever you do DON'T push your head down

3. DO: Compliment her
Everyone likes to know when they're doing a great job and this applies to sex too. Letting her know how much you're enjoying yourself is a great way to boost her confidence and enjoyment levels.

4. DON'T: Pressure her
Whatever you do don't guilt-trip her into performing fellatio. Some women just don't enjoy it.
If there is a particular reason she is put off you can talk through it, but if she's still not up for it don't pressure her.

5. DO: Warn her before you finish
Despite what you see in porn, not every woman enjoys swallowing. Make sure you warn her before you blow your load and if you want to ejaculate on her, check with her first.
If she does like going oral, she might be happy to know that a woman can burn a whopping 100 calories every half an hour from performing oral sex.
That's the equivalent of walking for 35 minutes or doing 15 hardcore minutes on the rowing machine.
If you want to ramp it up even further, Los Angeles–based sexologist Jaiya Kinzbach, recommends doing push-ups during the act or even trying out some yoga.
"You can do a little yoga," she told Womanday.com. "Try plank position into downward facing dog, and back into plank where you can lower down and do some oral stimulation."
You can blast an extra 71 calories by adding the occasional push-up and a further 35 doing some yoga moves.